What Did Solomon Discover?

The Prosperous Life!

“Early to bed, early to rise, makes a man healthy wealthy and wise,” Benjamin Franklin is quoted as saying.

The great king Solomon has an interesting story to relate when is come to this subject.

  • 1Kings 3:5-14  In Gibeon the LORD appeared to Solomon in a dream by night: and God said, Ask what I shall give thee.  And Solomon said, Thou hast shewed unto thy servant David my father great mercy, according as he walked before thee in truth, and in righteousness, and in uprightness of heart with thee; and thou hast kept for him this great kindness, that thou hast given him a son to sit on his throne, as it is this day. And now, O LORD my God, thou hast made thy servant king instead of David my father: and I am but a little child: I know not how to go out or come in.  And thy servant is in the midst of thy people which thou hast chosen, a great people, that cannot be numbered nor counted for multitude.  Give therefore thy servant an understanding heart to judge thy people, that I may discern between good and bad: for who is able to judge this thy so great a people?  And the speech pleased the Lord, that Solomon had asked this thing.  And God said unto him, Because thou hast asked this thing, and hast not asked for thyself long life; neither hast asked riches for thyself, nor hast asked the life of thine enemies; but hast asked for thyself understanding to discern judgment; Behold, I have done according to thy words: lo, I have given thee a wise and an understanding heart; so that there was none like thee before thee, neither after thee shall any arise like unto thee. And I have also given thee that which thou hast not asked, both riches, and honour: so that there shall not be any among the kings like unto thee all thy days. And if thou wilt walk in my ways, to keep my statutes and my commandments, as thy father David did walk, then I will lengthen thy days.

I have always found it interesting that God said since you did not ask for riches or a long life as it says in 2 Chronicles….

It would almost seem that God does not prefer us asking for wealth or a long life.  I am not saying it says that, but it would seem to imply that.

So exactly what did Solomon ask for that God was so blessed with?  In the above record, he asked for an understanding heart.  In the corresponding record in 2 Chronicles 1:10, Solomon asks:  “Give me now wisdom and knowledge….”

These three things, knowledge, wisdom and understanding, are like different facets of the same diamond.  They seem to be traveling companions in God’s Word — where you find one, you usually find the other two.

So when Solomon asked for wisdom, knowledge and understanding, God said He would give that to him as well as wealth and a long life (health) if Solomon would walk according to God’s Word.

Now Solomon was the writer of some, if not all of the proverbs in the book of Proverbs.  So Proverbs would be some of what God taught Solomon.

Solomon discovered that wealth and health are a RESULT

of seeking after the knowledge and wisdom of God.

  • Proverbs 3:13-16  Happy is the man that findeth wisdom, and the man that getteth understanding.  For the merchandise of it is better than the merchandise of silver, and the gain thereof than fine gold.  She is more precious than rubies: and all the things thou canst desire are not to be compared unto her. Length of days is in her right hand; and in her left hand riches and honour.
  • Proverbs 4:5-7  Get wisdom, get understanding: forget it not; neither decline from the words of my mouth. Forsake her not, and she shall preserve thee: love her, and she shall keep thee. Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.

Apparently, understanding is something you have to go get.  You have to want it; you have to seek after it.  Seemingly, Solomon wanted this understanding and wisdom so much that when God asked what can I give you, that is what burst out of his mouth and heart.

(It is interesting that God gave Solomon what he did not ask for, wealth, honor and a long life God could have chosen to give Solomon many others things, but this is what God chose to bless Solomon’s life with.  This is very similar to the verse in 3 John 2: Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth.  So we might conclude that seeking after knowledge, understanding and wisdom would at least be part of the prospering of the soul.)

So first of all, it would be an understanding of God and His Word.  But as we see when we read the works of Solomon, Proverbs and Ecclesiastes, it also applies to all areas of life.

For example, you can seek after knowledge, understanding and wisdom in the areas of:

  • Industry
  • Medicine
  • Law
  • How engines work
  • How to run a business
  • Raising children
  • Breastfeeding
  • Teaching children and adults
  • How to handle money, areas of finance
  • How to deal with health issues

The list could go on and on. Part of what God taught Solomon was to get some understanding, some knowledge and some wisdom.

So if you need greater health, or more help in the area of finances, ask God for understanding and wisdom in those areas, and then go get some recommended books, take some classes or find a good mentor and learn.

I have heard believers all my life say something to the effect of, “If I am going to read, study or learn, I am only interested in doing it from the Bible.”  Yet many of these same people went to college to get degrees in their chosen field.  But when it comes to learning about anything else, if it is not in the Bible, they have no interest in it.  It is almost a copout.

God’s Word gives us a solid foundation of truths and principles by which to guide our lives.  It is a light to our paths.  We work and live in this world, and we need to understand many different things. As we learn through books, teachers and courses, we have as our motivation to be the best for God in what we are studying at the moment.  We serve Him in ALL that we do. So we need knowledge and wisdom in many areas.

Consider for a minute what the record in Daniel teaches us. Daniel and some of his compatriots were carried off as slaves into Babylon when Babylon sacked Jerusalem.  The king of Babylon had the finest of these captives go to school at Babylon “University” to become some of his advisors.  They would have spent their time studying the language, the politics, the way the kingdom was administered, the wars they were involved in, and perhaps a host of other secular Babylonian subjects so that they would be able to advise the king.

Bible 101 was probably not the main course.  But these men were ones that kept God first in their hearts.  Thus, God opened their understanding and gave them wisdom in what they were studying to the end that when they were tested after three years, they were found to be 10 times wiser than all the other advisors.

How does that work you ask?  As you read or study material in the area you are interested in, God will show you:  That piece works with this one, this piece goes over here in your understanding, trash that one.  If you expect Him to show you and teach you, He will. But He needs a willing student. Someone who wants to learn.  Sadly as we get older, we shut off the intake valve to knowledge and lose much of what God would teach us.  It reminds one of the verse that says “to he that hath (understanding) more shall be given, and to he that hath not (no understanding) even that which he hath shall be taken away.

The key to gaining the type of understanding and wisdom that Daniel and his friends had is also found in the writings of Solomon.

  • Proverbs 1:7  The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge: but fools despise wisdom and instruction.
  • Proverbs 9:10  The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom: and the knowledge of the holy is understanding.

This is where true health and wealth come from – having a great respect for God FIRST, above all else, then as you seek after knowledge and wisdom and understanding, God will help you to gain understanding in whatever field you need or want to learn.

Then as Solomon discovered, as your knowledge wisdom and understanding increase so does your wealth and health. 

Proverbs 14:24 The wise accumulate wisdom; fools get stupider by the day.  (The Message)

Proverbs 2:7 He layeth up sound wisdom for the righteous: he is a buckler to them that walk uprightly.

Pro 8:21  That I may cause those that love me to inherit substance; and I will fill their treasures. 

The book Poverty Vs Wealth: Fundamentals of Prosperity,  pulls back the curtain in many more areas of prosperity. It is not a rehash of what you may have learned in the past. The information has helped many people, including myself, to understand what God really did say concerning The Prosperous Life.

Where in the River Did You Choose to Stand?

Roger's Rules for Contractors

Several years ago I was doing a small job in a home not far from here. The man was telling me he was recently retired from a local prison where he had been employed as a shop teacher of sorts.  He taught plumbing, electrical and trim carpentry.

Now that he was retired, he was going to work as a trim carpenter.  Apparently he was not licensed for electrical or plumbing.  He told me he did not think it was fair that plumbers and electricians charged about $100 -125.00 per hour, but as a trim carpenter all he could get was about $25.00 per hour.

I did not say anything, but it reminded me of what I had been taught a few years earlier by a wise man.  He said the economy of money is like a river flowing through life. In the center of the river it is deep and like a raging torrent but on the edges it is shallow and very slow moving.  Each of us come to the river with our bucket expecting to fill it with money.

No one tells us where to stand in the river to fill our buckets.  Some stand in the middle where the buckets fill quickly and some struggle to fill their buckets in the shallow edges.

The man could have put in the time to become licensed as a plumber or an electrician, but he chose to be a trim carpenter.

If you don’t like the part of the river you are in, CHANGE PLACES.  Go study what the successful people do, and stand where they do.

Think about it.

If you work in homes, here is something to consider:  Many people, especially women, find it disturbing to have strangers working in their home, some to a greater degree and some lesser.  Or even if you know them, it is difficult to have their home torn up for remodeling or even to have a garbage disposal installed.  It is their home.  It disrupts their routine.  Most detest the mess even if you clean up somewhat.  It is just disconcerting to them even if they say nothing.  They can be uncomfortable. What helps is to be dressed well, use tarps, be polite and be on time.  Get the job done and leave.

One of the very successful companies here in the City a few years ago advertised that their guys were well dressed and polite, even though they were PLUMBERS.  Dirty plumbers with grease on them and muddy boots are almost a proverb.  It is accepted as the norm many times.

Well, this company charge $25 -30 extra per hour because of the way they presented their employees at the door and on the job, and people were happy to pay.

Think about it.

#13 Tell them what to expect

I have found that you prevent a lot of trouble during and after a job by telling people what to expect during the job — noise, dust, delays, etc.  I also tell them what to expect the job to look like when it is completed.  Explain everything up front even the objectionable things.

Then when those things come up, they will feel more like you were being honest with them.  If they have to ask about those things when they see them and don’t like them, then any explanation you give will seem like you are schmoozing (bullsh…ing) them or feeding them a line to get away with poor workmanship.

Think about it.

Rule #47 We don’t give discounts. 

Today I found this rule that I had written under a file called Rules for Contractors.  I had written it many years ago.  A friend of mine and I were having an online discussion with another female contractor that was being asked to discount her work.  We were both in agreement that we never discount our work. The reasoning here is the same as some of the other rules.  If you discount your work, you fall into the category of contractors that “need” the work.  I have had new builders that said, “I am building my own home first, then I will have several more for you to work in, so I need a builder’s discount.”  I told them we price our work the same to everyone.  Then you can add whatever statement you want after that. For example:

  • It takes us just as long to do one job as another, and our overhead is the same no matter what the price.
  • Our pricing is to the bone already, and we just can’t.
  • My boss would fire me if I gave you a discount without consulting her first.  Yes, my wife is my boss, and she is mean.  I would like to stay married so I just can’t.
  • Whatever it takes. If possible, price their work higher.  You probably don’t want to work for them anyway.

That person that you give the discount to will most likely be one of your hardest clients to work for.  But if you stick to your guns, that same client will most likely leave you to your work if they hire you.

Think about it.

Lastly, to end this series of blogs I wanted to take a minute and talk about money.  When I looked at the number of rules that dealt with money:  how to set up your payments – jobs, how to collect, the attitude you need, that you need to be determined to get paid and you need to have a confident backbone.  It almost seemed as if maybe I had money on the brain – greedy.

But consider what God has to say about dealing with people in His Word.

Jeremiah 22:13  Woe unto him that buildeth his house by unrighteousness, and his chambers by wrong; that useth his neighbour’s service without wages, and giveth him not for his work;

Apparently, contractors not getting paid has been a problem for thousands of years. It is not a new thing.  God says, “Woe to him that does not pay.”

Why do people not want to pay? Not good quality work. They should have investigated the contractor before they hired them.  Notice: God makes no exceptions for not paying. Some people always find something wrong with the job so that they feel justified in not paying the full amount. So this is why many of the rules work together to give you a greater percentage of jobs that pay with no question.  Then we have rules for the ones that are left that are difficult.  Many people just don’t like parting with their money.

  • Dress well.
  • Be on time.
  • Explain the pricing up front and don’t budge from it.
  • Get used to confrontation.
  • Settle the question of payment up front.
  • Never back up on a bid.

There are many more things I could list, but they all work together to get you paid.  Because the nature of some people is to let you work for free!

Think about it.

I trust you have found these blogs helpful.  Look for Roger’s Rules for Contractors on Amazon in the near future.   But in the mean time, try the book Poverty vs Wealth.  It will amaze you.

Always remember, ask God for knowledge, understanding and wisdom.  He will not disappoint you.

Collect good rules and put them into practice.


  • Proverbs 14:24 The wise accumulate wisdom; fools get stupider by the day.  (The Message)
  • Proverbs 2:7 He layeth up sound wisdom for the righteous: he is a buckler to them that walk uprightly.

Accumulating rules that govern life are all part of The Prosperous Life.


Charge Like a Business!

Roger's Rules for Contrator's #35


The lady says, “You don’t charge for that do you? You just got here.” Sometimes our job only takes one to five minutes.

The builder standing there watching says, “That did not take long.  Are you giving me a discounted price?”

Another lady says, “Wow! That was simple. I’ll bet you don’t charge the builder much do you?”

“It is a trip charge ma’am.”

“I am going to turn you in to the builder!”

A new contractor told me one time that they only charge $15-20/hour.

One thing all these people have in common is that they are thinking in terms of paying a labor charge.

Think about it.  There is a great difference between paying a business for coming to your home and paying a day laborer you have hired to work.  One is a business – and one is a laborer.

If an electrician comes to your house and all he has to do is change out a light bulb to fix the problem, you still pay his company’s minimum trip charge because he represents and works for a business.

Most businesses should have a minimum trip charge for work, inspections on site, or giving advice on site. For example, in contracting these trip charges may run from $95.00 to 150.00. The business charges the trip charge, and they pay the electrician or plumber by the hour for their labor, $15-25.00 per hour.

The expenses to run a business are much greater than the expenses of showing up to work as a laborer.

I have listed here some of the expenses a business has to pay for overhead.

Expenses for a business:

  • Workman’s Comp Insurance
  • Contractor’s Liability Insurance
  • Local Licenses
  • Truck
  • Truck Insurance
  • Fuel
  • Vehicle Maintenance
  • Fax Machine/Printer/Copier
  • Land Line for Phone
  • Cell Phone
  • Computer
  • Bookkeeping Software
  • Other Types of Software
  • Internet Access
  • Office Space
  • Office Equipment
  • Office Supplies
  • Tools and Equipment
  • Supplies
  • Website
  • Website Design and Management
  • Drive time to the job

Expenses for laborer:

  • Clothes
  • Shoes

So if you are just beginning the business of contracting and you have been a laborer for years, you have to change how you think. It may be a shock to your mind to now charge like a business instead of being paid for labor, but you can do it.  Many other people have made the jump.

Since you are a business and not just a worker or laborer, you may need to dress like you own a business. Think like a business man or woman, and see yourself as one who owns a business.

You cannot charge $15-20 per hour, pay the list of expenses itemized above, then hand your spouse the change and expect them to pay all your personal household expenses.  You will go broke.

If you are going to contract business, you have to charge like a business.

 # 35 Charge like a business  

  • Proverbs 14:24 The wise accumulate wisdom; fools get stupider by the day.  (The Message)
  • Proverbs 2:7 He layeth up sound wisdom for the righteous: he is a buckler to them that walk uprightly.

Accumulating rules that govern life are all part of The Prosperous Life.

Don’t Divide Out a Bid

Roger's Rules for Contractors!


To run a successful contracting business it is much like a game of chess.  There is a great necessity to think through how you set your business up.  You need a good set of common sense business rules to guide your decisions and your dealings with people.  Roger’s Rules for Contractors is a way of helping young contractors think about what they are doing and what they  may need to change in their dealings with people to have continued success.

# 42 Never do time and materials.

Whenever possible, do not do time and materials.  It is much more profitable to do a flat bid for a specific amount of work.  For instance, let’s say you bid a certain amount of work at $225.00 and it takes you two hours to complete.  If you bill them time 2 hours @ $100.00 each and materials for $25.00, they will probably balk at that.  No one wants to pay $100.00/hour for labor.  But they will not hesitate to pay the $225.00 for a bid job most of the time.

I realize some jobs have to be time and materials.  Many painters bid large jobs that way.  Just make sure you are paid well for what you do.

A key here is this:  The longer the job, the more hours, the less you will likely earn per hour.  Although long jobs have a sense of job security that comes with them, many times many small jobs, bid properly can produce a better income.

# 30 Avoid an expanding scope of work.

People will try to add things on at the last minute like adding another room or doing some necessary repairs along with what you have already bid to do.  They figure that you have that time set aside and rather than risk not working, you will do more for free because you will fear losing the job.  Many see contractors as being broke, begging for work and unable to feed and clothe your family.

We simply reiterate what we are doing and the price. Then we say, “If you need more done, I can price that to you now. Then you can decide before I get started, or before I come back tomorrow, if you want the additional work done.” Stick up for yourself.

Once you stand up for yourself, that type of adding on usually stops and it also makes them realize that you have a backbone and won’t be pushed. That can save you grief in other areas of the job as well.

# 43 Don’t divide out a bid.

In bidding a job, it works well to see what the customer wants done, then call them back later with a price.  After you think about it for a while in a relaxed frame of mind you will remember to add in things that you may have forgotten if you bid it right on the spot.

Sometimes when you come back with a price, the customer will ask if you can divide out the bid for him. They may say how about if we left this off, then what would you charge.  Once they have the lower price then they will say, “Well, my buddy Bob was going to do the prep work, so could you take that out also?”  Then they think they can buy the materials cheaper than what you are charging.

First, we quit doing jobs where someone else does the prep work a long time ago.  Those never work out well.  If the prep work was not done properly they will say, “Hey, I already paid to have it done once, you will just have to deal with what they did.”  Now you either walk away or redo the prep work at your cost with no pay.

If the customer was going to buy the materials, cut out a room, and have Bob do the prep work, the honest thing would have been for them to tell you that up front.  If they buy the materials, they may not buy what you are used to working with, but they will expect you to stand behind the work even if the materials are inferior.

You should be marking up your materials, too.  There is time in buying and transporting, and you are in a way financing part of the job until the materials are paid for unless they pay for the materials up front.

Once you have given them a bid, stick with that bid.  People that want the bid divided out generally are going to be trouble all the way through the job.

You will see these things come up as you work.  Just remember the principles.  The more you abide by them the better your outcomes will be.

And be prepared to walk away instead of giving in to their demands.  Many times I have been called back to do the work after I stuck to my guns in pricing.  But I had no more trouble during the job.

People will push you to see if there is any give in you.  If there is give in you, they will push on everything in the job.

So these principles have a common denominator.  Have a backbone; stand up for yourself.  Decide how you are going to structure your business and stick with it.  It will pay great dividends going down the road.

# 19 Never downgrade your competition.

Always admit that they are good, that they are just an alternative to you.

If you have ever listened to someone downgrade their competitors, it gives a terrible impression of the one talking.  It is so easy to see that they are trying to look better by belittling others.  That never works.  People know what you are doing and why.  You will seem like a small begrudging person.

You will gain a much greater reputation by being polite about your competition.

I know there are many of these rules.  But if you read them frequently and then talk to other good, older contractors about them, you will find most have learned these same rules the way I did — the hard way, by experience.  They just never bothered to number the rules and write them down.

#46 Don’t work for friends.

Working for friends can be a great way to end a friendship.  There is an old saying that “familiarity breeds contempt.” They feel like you should do it much cheaper for them since they know you, but they will expect you to deliver the moon.  If you discount the work to them, they will still want more discounts on everything.  The bigger the job the more they will want.

The only way to avoid these problems in contracting that I know of is to tell your friend up front what you are willing to do on price.

Then tell them up front how you run your business.  Any changes will come with a changes estimate and have to be paid in cash up front.  You have to stick strictly to your policies even though they are your friends.  Once they see you will not budge I suspect they will leave you alone.

I once knew a builder whose client wanted to change the can lights after they were installed.  He gave them a price and the customer said, “I don’t what to have the hassle of this over every change.  Just bring the bills to the closing, and I will pay for them then.”  The builder took $60,000.00 worth of change orders to the closing.  The customer then said, “I am not paying for that. This is a custom home; you should have calculated those changes into the price.”  That builder ate the money.

Stick to your principles.  If I were the builder, I would have refused to close and would have put the house on the market as a spec house and would have taken the loss selling their home to someone else.

 # 39 Verify  

We verify everything.  We verify addresses, who is paying, and that they are home now so we can come over. I had a builder that set up an appointment once and would not give us the homeowner’s number. I got there at the set time and no one was home.  I called the builder and asked her when she verified they would be there.  Three days earlier!  I left.  This is why we require the phone number of the person that is going to meet us there.

Many times a husband will say, “My wife will be there all day; just go on over.”  “Can I get her phone number?” “Sure.” When I call, she says, “I am not at home. I have a dentist appointment, then a Junior League meeting, and then I have to pick the kids up from school.  I don’t know why he says those things without checking with me first.” — Verify!

If you are asked to do work at one address but asked to write on the bill another address, verify with the main office that this is a known policy of theirs.

I had a foreman one time that wanted me to fix something is his apartment and bill it to a house under construction.  That can be a great problem.  It could be the company agreed to do this, but maybe not.

What happens if they catch it that you did not do the work at that address?  Do you think that foreman will stand up to what he asked you to do?  Not on your life.  It will appear that you are dunning them for work you did not do.

So I called his supervisor and asked if billing this way was their policy.  He did not get fired, but I suspect he heard about it and never asked me to do that again.

It is your business and you have to protect it like a mother bear taking care of her cubs.

If it every got out that you billed for work you did not do, you may not be able to recover from that.  I have heard stories about people that did such things and it almost took them down.

Proverbs 13:11  Wealth from get-rich-quick schemes quickly disappears;  wealth from hard work grows over time.  New Living Translation

Proverbs 21:5  Good planning and hard work lead to prosperity, but hasty shortcuts lead to poverty.  New Living Translation.

A good set of rules to guide your life by is all part of The Prosperous Life!








Keep Your Integrity!

Roger's Rules for Contractors

When I first got into this business, my focus was on solving the problems of the people that called. I would say, “No problem,” and get it fixed ASAP.

But as time went on and I became very busy, I began to try to get them to wait on me by getting them to sympathize with my problems in getting there in a timely fashion.  I talked about too many of the things going on in my life that were negative.

As I was talking one day, I could tell by the man’s face that he really did not want to hear all that.  As I thought about what I was doing, I realized that my focus had dramatically changed from being a problem solver to being a problem teller.

People are looking for problem solvers.  They’re not concerned with your problems. They just want their problems fixed. If you have too many problems, they will find somebody who doesn’t have so many.

So that’s how Rule #6 came about.

Rule#6 Don’t tell people about your problems!

Your business will do better!

Rule# 12 Never work for just one company or client.

My boys were in Boy Scouts several years ago and the Scout Master at the time was an attorney.  He had worked for the same company for about 20 years and had no private practice.  He had a nice home, a son in college, but when the oil company made some cuts, he was out of a job.  Since he had never developed a private practice, he was in bad shape.  He finally went to work for another attorney in the troop that had his own law firm.

It is never good as a contractor to only work for one company or client.  They can really put your feet to the fire at times to get lower prices, their own houses done cheaply or their jobs done for free.

I worked for an acquaintance one time that had just had a new home built by a large builder.  She told me that all the contractors on her home told her that they had just built their foreman a new home with free labor.  They either did his home for free or found another job.  What could they do?  He was their only client.

I have been offered large jobs in the past that may take a year or so.  First, they want it done at a cheaper price because of the volume of the work and the job security it offers.  Then they want to be your only client.  I have always turned those deals down.  What happens at the end of the work?  I would have no business left to go back to.  All my clients will have found other contractors, and I will have to start from scratch building a business.

They may decide in six months they want the price even cheaper.  They have you over a barrel.  They are your only source of income.

What if they decide in six months that Bob can do it even cheaper?  They will drop you in a heartbeat.

Trading your freedom of running your own business for the security of work every day is not worth the risk.

# 24  Don’t stir the pot.

This can cover many different areas.

I used to tell builders things that I saw wrong with their houses that might cause them trouble down the road.  I found they usually took that as criticism.  Now I will tell them if the house is on fire but that is about it.

I used to try to help people get their jobs done under the warranty they had.  That required many phone calls to set it up. I found that the some of the people I had to contact in order to accomplish this did not appreciate it.  As we could not turn in the warranty job ourselves, it required several calls to find out if the responsible entity had turned the job in for the people.  I quit stirring the warranty pot also.

Not stirring the pot is a good principle to live by in your work and in everyday life.  The more you ponder it and watch the better you will understand.

# 25 Keep how much you make to yourself.

This is a great rule.  Each business has its own list of expenses and financial duties and benefits that most outside that business will not understand.

Years ago my mother saw a milk check (proceeds from a dairy farm for the milk they sold that week) that came into my aunt’s books.  Mother said, “Boy, I would like to have that for a week.”  My aunt said, “It looks like a lot, but if you saw the bills I have to pay, it would not seem like very much.”

People will not understand how your business is set up and perhaps what all is involved in the price you set. So it is best to just keep what you make to yourself.

# 41 Keep Your Integrity.

Integrity is a most valuable asset you can have as a business person.  Integrity says you can be trusted:  trusted to tell the truth in situations – trusted to do what is right.

But integrity is often sacrificed on the altar of money.

I have a book that I look at often that has things I pray about in it.  At the top of the page is list of priorities for life that I learned from Jim Rohn (a self development speaker).  It is a very good way of ordering the priorities of your life.

  1. God
  2. Health
  3. Family
  4. Integrity
  5. Career

Many people put their career in the number one position.  That would have to do with the making of money.  If you do this, you will sacrifice your relationship with God, your health, your relationship with your family and your integrity for the sake of your career or in other words, money.

God should always come first.  Then should come the taking care of your health.  Without health you are no good to your family or your career.

Family should come next and always before your career.  Then comes your integrity.  If you sacrifice your integrity for the sake of your career, you may lose your career also.

You may be tempted to lie to benefit a builder or plumber, etc. But once they know you lie, can they ever really rely on your telling the truth in any other situation?  If they really need an honest assessment, they will have to ask someone else.  Because they know you cannot be trusted.

I have lost accounts and friends because I would not change the facts to benefit them.  But if that is what they required for them to be my friend or for me to keep their business, is that what I want to build my life on?  My answer is always the same. NO.   Keep your integrity. It is worth far more than money or position or more jobs.

I was analyzing a job for a hotel one time and told them what they should do.  One partner said to the other, “They told me you may not like what he tells you, but he will tell you the truth.” That is the reputation that you want.

In the long haul, having great integrity and being a person that can be trusted will pay great dividends. Always Keep Your Integrity.

  • Proverbs 14:24 The wise accumulate wisdom; fools get stupider by the day.  (The Message)
  • Proverbs 2:7 He layeth up sound wisdom for the righteous: he is a buckler to them that walk uprightly.

Accumulating rules that govern life are all part of The Prosperous Life.